Hair Emergency and a Starbucks Giveaway

I am having a total hair crisis.  I need help!  Im gonna show you some of my recent styles let you help me make the decision on where to go next! As a reward for helping me you can enter to win a Starbucks Gift Card! Haha!  I was born blonde, really really blonde, grew up blonde when I hit puberty my hair slowly started getting darker and darker.  I have been coloring it since I was at least 18 and I have NO idea what my natural color is any more.  I kept it blonde for a long time and about 5 years ago I went to the dark side.   Ive been red (awful on me), black, brown, I even had a skunk do at one point EEK Here is my current color and I totally hate it.  I tried to go back blonde a few months ago and had a horrid experience that included over 4 hours at the salon and coming out with horrid chemical burns after that went back to a different stylist and she is having to take getting my hair fixed in two steps.  We havnt finished fixing the giant mess up but when we do it will just be blonder.  So I can go even a little blonder or somewhere else?

While this may look ok this was the day i got it done.. now it looks more like this

This is more the every day awfulness 

I have been trying to grow out my hair for over a year and the longer it gets the more I wanna cut it.  With kids constantly pulling on it I end up pulling it up all the time and my hubs doesnt like it when I wear my 'mommy hair' Here are some looks over the past few years

1. When we were dating LOVED this

2 after I had my monkey

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3 right before we had the princess

4 right after we had teh princess

5 right before deployment

6 actually this was right before deployment

7 valentines 10

8 right after i had jax

9 right after deployment

9 same as above just from the back loved this but hubs really didnt

10 this is my fav ever but when we tried to recreate it we got this mess below

11 ugh vacation with the hubs

12 short brown with highlight love this too

Ok so what do you think?  You can vote in the giveaway and enter to win a Starbucks Gift Card! OH and here are a few ideas i have that I like haha Im kinda thinking brown with highlights and a chunk of blue? haha IDK These are all on my Pinterest Hair Board

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15 love her  random hair

Ok Vote away and Good Luck!!! a Rafflecopter giveaway